“Indecision is debilitating; it feeds upon itself; it is, one might almost say, habit-forming. Not only that, but it is contagious; it transmits itself to others.” – H.A. Hopf
Decision making is never easy, whether it is a matter of life, health, relationships or money.
Some people are quick in making decisions, some take longer. However, there are times in life when we all have felt stuck and are unable to make decisions.
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Why we get stuck in making decisions
There can be several reasons for indecision:
Fear of Failure
Often, we know the right thing to do but we are not able to take action because we are afraid of failure, says Clarity Coach Dolveen Bhatti.
Feeling of Overwhelm
At times, we are faced with too many options to choose from or too many variables to keep in mind and we feel overwhelmed by it all. This paralyzes our decision making.
Perfectionism
Some people want everything to be perfect. They are not able to move forward unless everything is planned to perfection.
Lack of Information
This is the biggest reason for indecision. Often, we don’t have clarity about the outcome we are seeking, the resources available to us. All this makes decisions daunting.
How a Clarity Coach can help
When you work with a Clarity Coach, you start with the root cause of indecision.
One of the main reasons for indecision is lack of self-awareness. We are often not aware of our potential and are too worried about the outcome.
Your Clarity Coach can help you find and deal with the fears, limiting beliefs or negative thought patterns that you may carry. Coaching, through thought provoking questions and deep listening, can help you achieve a fresh perspective which guides you to set goals and take action.
We also hesitate in decision making due to lack of clarity of our values and priorities. We don’t know exactly what is important to us and what is not. Your Clarity Coach can help you identify your true values – things that truly matter to you.
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Working with a Clarity Coach
Indecision happens with everyone. If you are struggling to make a decision in life right now and take positive actions, then a Clarity Coach can help. Check out how Clarity Coach Dolveen Bhatti has helped several clients overcome indecision take and bring massive changes in their lives.
Dolveen is a certified clarity coach who helps you spot the blind spots and use your innate intelligence with psychology and NLP. She offers breakthrough clarity coaching sessions that help you make confident decisions about your life and career keeping your goals in mind. Dolveen also runs group programs on mental well-being, life skills and soft skills that help you explore yourself, make better decisions and choose your life and career path effectively.
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